Not long ago, I was upbeat and thinking the COVID epidemic was in retreat, and better days were ahead.
Along with the Good News, I reminded everyone of the three W’s: wearing a mask, waiting six feet and washing our hands. We started holding in-person worship services, while continuing the online worship presence.
I was optimistic! New cases seemed to be on decline and life was slowly returning to normal.
It has not turned out this way.
With the new deadly variants – and the low vaccination rates – we are suffering and people are dying that did not have to die. It is a time when even the strongest can grow faint and weary.
In 38 years of ministry, I have worked with a number of people who have suffered from depression and mental illness.
I have also had my share of anxieties and dealt with problems that seemed insurmountable. Many have struggled in this pandemic; we have a divided nation, the economy, loneliness, grief and family concerns.
I hear the words of Jesus who said, “So do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring worries of its own. Today’s trouble is enough for today” (Matthew 6-24, NRSV).
The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Association offers six key ways we can help one another. First, create a safe environment where boundaries are respected and people feel included. Second, develop trust and transparency. Get your facts straight before you pass on what you hear. Before you put someone on the prayer list, please get permission.
Third, create a place of support where friendships can be made and developed. Fourth, realize healing happens in relationships and everyone can play a role. Fifth, recognize everyone is unique and does not fit in one size fit all categories. We can work to build one another up and give people a voice.
Sixth, move past stereotypes and respect cultural, historical and gender issues.
Honor people and don’t judge.
As I was always taught, “Don’t judge someone until you walk a mile in their shoes.”
Eric Reece is the faith columnist for The Graham Star. He can be reached via email, ereece@wnccumc.net.